From “The Poems of John H. Watson”
Reprinted By M. Vernet
The Missing Years 1883 – 1886
Praise and Criticism
How we love a hint of praise,
Lightens our step and makes our day.
Makes us feel so superior,
Like we were never seen before.
Even if the kudos was weak,
We grow a smile from cheek to cheek.
Praise puts in the eye a certain gleam,
A definite boost to the self-esteem.
A simple thing, a pleasant word,
Becomes the best thing we ever heard.
And yet praise’s partner, criticism,
Can bring a halt to all witticism.
A cruel remark and all creativity
Is put in a boat and set out to sea.
The critic is always so sincere,
Whispering only the truth in our ear.
But whispers turn to inward dread.
We can not get it out of our head.
A hardhearted word is a dangerous thing.
Ponder the tumult that it brings.
Considering the fact that we are all brothers,
What gives one the right to judge another?
We are all just the same within,
Human and spirit under the skin.
Who is above and who is below?
Who is chosen to be the one to know?
Although praise is sweet it is not needed,
When inner peace is consulted and heeded.
A criticism meant for good or bad,
Is not something that we need to have.
It is so hard not to seek praise,
Live our lives in a joyful way.
To smile at those who criticize.
Knowing they can not realize,
That to judge another is not their place.
How hard to live without a trace
Of righteousness, insisting we must be heard.
As if nothing as important as our words.
Imagine to never be judged at all
Free and unencumbered, standing tall.